A defense of oneself-shyness

Shyness sometimes can't avoid its a normal as a human. When we are shy our face tend to turn red. Sometimes brings to us to be confused in everything or we lost in focus. I do not think that shyness can be kept within bounds by any ethical arguments. I used to tell myself if i encountered it for instance, i was okay , i know what i did and what i can say. Old folks said you become shy if you do not good to your fellows, or you are in the world of lying telling not the truth in order to compliment yourself or others or not to hate disregarded by them . My point is I'm a better person ,i am what i am, naturally had a weaknesses and strength, even though it is not good to think negatively then think both (negative and positive ), if you feel that this feeling /practice can help you why not... Be yourself....